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I have never let my schooling interfere with my education.
--Mark Twain
"Zoot bosh" we yelled at the driver--"hurry up!" Once again, he had thrown the car into a power turn, knocking all of us off-balance, our books and papers flying. As we sped away, our small worried faces peered out the rear window at the narrow lane and the crowd of curb-to-curb angry men, waving their arms, shouting, and advancing in our direction. Our driver raced expertly through what has been acknowledged as the world's most chaotic driving environment, never hitting any of the people, donkeys, camels, carts, street vendors or other cars that crowded the streets of Tehran.
Inside the car, my heart was pounding from a combination of terror and excitement. I was never sure whether we were going to get away. Maybe our car would break down, I thought, or a group would come from behind and trap us in the narrow street. My plan, if caught, was to try to pass for Persian! I actually imagined I could speak enough Farsi (Farsi -- Persian -- is the language of Iran) to get by and with my dark hair and eyes, I hoped I could fool them. Of course, that would only work if they didn't notice my American accent and fair Irish skin and if they ignored the fact that I was a passenger in a vehicle from the American Embassy with a bunch of American kids and an Iranian chauffeur. Narrow escapes and wild rides were just part of going to and from school for us.
Daddy made his career in the military. As we followed him to various assignments, I learned that home was not a specific location but it was where your family and your belongings were. Once the familiar furniture was in place and our pictures were hanging on the wall, I was home, no matter where in the world we were.
The summer between second and third grade, Daddy left for his new assignment as a cryptographer in the military attache of the American Embassy in Tehran. My mother, sister and I joined him just after Thanksgiving, and I continued third grade there.
These were tumultuous times in Iran, and there was considerable political turbulence and unrest as the Soviets and the Americans competed for influence. The Shah was overthrown and street fighting, or riots, as we called them, were common occurrences. Instigated by Tudeh Party (communist) agitators, these riots could be quite anti-American in tone. These were the same folks who plastered our front door with "Yankee Go Home" stickers nearly every night.
The Community School in Tehran, located on Ghavam Sultaneh Street, had slightly more than 200 students then. It was commonly called the "American School," I suppose because it was run by Presbyterian missionaries from the United States who had had a presence in Iran since the 1830s. The school had been started to provide education for children of the missionaries, who were usually home-schooled or sent to Europe. Iranians and foreign students were enrolled as well and by the time I was there, only a few of the students were children of missionaries. Classes met Monday through Thursday and on Saturdays. They were taught in English but we all studied French and Persian too. With the exception of the Americans, most of the students spoke two or more languages.
Someone once called the Community School "a laboratory of democracy at work." Besides the American kids, there were many students from prominent Iranian families and children from Europe, Asia, and the Middle East, whose families were living temporarily in Tehran. Their parents were diplomats, exiles, military, professionals, oil industry personnel, etc. We represented 28 nationalities and eight religions, yet we studied and played beautifully together, barely aware of the differences between us or of the tensions among many of our countries. Christians, Jews, Moslems, Zoroastrians, and Sikh blended with no problems. Officially, each student's religion and nationality was respected, although the school curriculum included Christian chapel services and Bible study. Above the school entrance, in beautiful Persian calligraphy, were the words from the Book of John, 8:32, "You shall know the truth, and the truth shall make you free." We all learned the United Nations pledge of allegiance to our individual countries and flags and we sang the United Nations hymn, the "Song of Peace," set to music by the Finnish composer, Jean Sibelius.
THE UNITED NATIONS PLEDGE
"I pledge allegiance to my country, and to the United Nations
of which it is a part,
one world brotherhood of peaceful nations,
with liberty and justice for all."
The next year, the school moved across Tehran to a site on Khiabane Zhaleh, Kucheh Mareez Khaneh (Hospital Drive), near Jaleh Street. The new school had been an old Presbyterian missionary hospital. Farah Diba, who became Queen of Iran, had been born there. Used as a military hospital during World War II, it was eventually returned to the missionaries to be used as the school campus. The large, shady compound had several buildings, a church, walking paths, and a pond teeming with tadpoles.
The new school facilities were a big improvement, but there was a downside. It was located at the end of a dead-end street in a dangerous part of the city where unrest and riots were particularly common. My parents worried. Good thing they never knew that some of us occasionally slipped off campus and into the Tehran streets to shop. Our mission was to buy colored erasers, which we needed for our collections of eraser shavings!
I ventured into theater that year. I thought the story of Cinderella would make a great play and found other kids at school who thought so too. Of course, not all of them were sure who Cinderella was, but that didn't stop us. We set about writing the script, selecting the actors, designing the set and costumes and holding rehearsals. I found that I could easily get all of us out of class to work on this by being somewhat honest and saying we had to work on "the play." Each teacher assumed we were involved in a school-sponsored theater production. We had an exciting, productive time for a couple of weeks until my teacher, Mrs. Stephanides, and others, found our absences from class excessive. They began to check into who was in charge of the play and were so surprised to discover that it was me! The play was not a school-sponsored event and of course, there was no adult supervision. Needless to say, the show did not go on.
In America that fall, Eisenhower was running for president. Soon, a gang of American boys started "terrorizing" us on the school grounds. Concealing themselves in the bushes, they would jump out, grab unsuspecting passers-by and threaten to beat them up unless they responded correctly to the question, "Do you like Ike?" When they captured me, I took a wild guess and said I liked Ike. That must have been the right answer because I was released unharmed, though shaken. "Who the heck was Ike?" I wondered.
Fourth grade was the first time I can remember having a "boyfriend." I latched onto Stefan, who was from one of the Soviet countries and was several years older than I was. I think it was a rather one-sided relationship but he tolerated my constant presence well. I stuck to him like glue on the campus while he and his friends hung out or played soccer. I remember him as being tall, (well, I was only nine years old!), dark, and handsome, with a great accent. My real motive might have been to gain a protector from those scary "Do you like Ike?" terrorists.
One of the highlights of the school year was Parents Day, which was held in the spring, just before the end of school. We performed for the parents and other guests, singing in different languages and dancing national folk dances, wearing country-specific costumes. Each class represented a country, and so we learned unfamiliar songs, dances, and national dress.
In the spring of third grade, my class was in the Russian group for Parents Day. We sang "Ochi Chernye" (Dark Eyes) and danced a Russian folk dance. I can still sing that song in Russian. The event was held outside in the school compound. We rarely had to worry about being "rained out" in Tehran.
I left the Community School behind after fourth grade when my family returned to the United States. Americans were flooding into Iran then, their numbers eventually reaching 70,000. The American Embassy asked the Community School to take responsibility for the education of all American children in the city, but the new principal suggested that it might be time for the Embassy to start its own school. The year we left Iran, the new school for Americans opened. I am so grateful I was there before that happened!
The Community School prospered and grew, continuing to serve both international and Iranian children in Tehran for many more years until the Islamic Revolution forced its closure. The last class graduated in the spring of 1980. Those who attended the school never forgot the experience and, although former students are living all over the world, they have a reunion every two years to renew friendships and remember those school days in Tehran. Of course, the reunion is not held in Tehran but that is the goal for sometime in the future.
During the two years after we left Iran, I attended four different U.S. schools. Near the end of sixth grade, we left the U.S. again, this time heading to Helsinki, Finland, where Daddy began a two-year tour of duty. That fall, my sister Carol and I enrolled in the English School, a private Catholic School. As in Iran, the tuition was paid by the Embassy but transportation was not provided. Finland was, and still is, one of the safest places on earth. Kids walked or used public transportation to go to and from school and it was always a peaceful commute.
More often than not, we moved mid-year, and invariably I missed some key concept in one subject or another. I spent a lot of time trying to "catch-up." I learned to live with that feeling of always being an outsider, of continually making and losing relationships and of expecting all things to come to an end. Connections have been elusive ever since (my sister, my brother and I are all divorced). But I'm convinced my sense of adventure, the attraction to danger that I occasionally indulge in, and my penchant for traveling off the beaten track, all come from these experiences.
Attending a private Presbyterian school in Islamic Iran, a Catholic school in Lutheran Finland , plus six U.S. public schools, all before eighth grade, made for one mixed up kid with large gaps in learning. For example, my math is terrible. Really terrible. But thanks to the Tehran Community School, I can spell hieroglyphics!
I apparently was somewhere else when Americans my age were learning American history. I probably don't know enough to pass the test given U.S. immigrants applying for citizenship. Instead, I learned about Persia's history; its ancient capitol, Persepolis and about the great Persian kings, Darius and Cyrus. I learned to speak enough Persian and Finnish to be misunderstood. I know the story of the great Finnish military hero, Mannerheim, and the music of Finland's famous composer, Jean Sibelius. I know a little about the Finnish national epic, "Kalavala", and a lot about their lovable storybook characters, the Moomintrolls. I have a sort of Catholic/Anglican/Presbyterian understanding of the Christian faith and a pretty good grasp of the origin and history of Islam. I have seen the crushing poverty of the third world, lived in a country where life hadn't changed in hundreds, if not thousands, of years, and where transgressions of the law could result in brutal public punishments. I never witnessed a beheading, thank God, but I remember hearing that they were carried out in Tehran when we lived there. I have had wonderful friends from other cultures and faiths. I have ridden camels, eaten unidentifiable foods, gone swimming in the Caspian Sea, looked out from behind a chador (the head-to-toe veil worn by Iranian women.), given money to beggars, and run from rioters. None of this would have happened if I had spent those years in one town, one neighborhood, and one school. I consider myself lucky to have had such an exciting, unique and useful education.
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